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lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
9/13/2018 12:04 pm

I'm all for women being assertive...


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/13/2018 12:07 pm

Great blog my friend and you know some men just have issues with assertive women. I have had to deal with that a couple of times in my life..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
9/13/2018 12:08 pm

I grew up with three sisters no brothers, worked in a career where women were common in management. I believe in equal opportunity in all aspects of life: career, family and dating. I enjoy being approached as well as approaching women.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
9/13/2018 12:19 pm

Not being so assertive myself, I have no problem with the lady leading the way.


johns_folly 64M

9/13/2018 12:22 pm

I see each of us as equals. If your attracted to someone, make the move. How else are you going to know if the other party is interested? Notice I didn't mention male or female in the previous? Because it shouldn't matter. Tell em' "I like your hair, do you have it done near here?" or " You have some large arms, do you work out?". Kinda cheesey but you get the idea.


Pleasureinc 60M  
2200 posts
9/13/2018 12:24 pm

See someone you like. Go for it! If men are put off by this then they may be insecure boys. Let's not make this too complicated........


tinroofrusted59 64M

9/13/2018 12:30 pm

oh my god, are you kidding me? why wouldn't I like a woman to be assertive. I can say no if I don't like it as much as a woman can. Being sought out by someone is flattering and great for the ego. I say women, bring it on!!


Nimothy777 67M

9/13/2018 12:30 pm

Being assertive eliminates a lot of the confusion about intent. Such as, does a flirt on here mean anything?


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
9/13/2018 1:03 pm

I can't change who I am for anyone...my parents brought me up to believe I could do anything I wanted and when I was a young divorced woman with a child I fought hard...and won...the right to be treated the same as the men in my chosen career in respect of pension rights and death in service benefits for my daughter. I also had no problem in making the first move with men.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
9/13/2018 1:12 pm

Like the majority on this blog, i have voted for option C, although I think there is still the old mentality, and it is still strong amon women too.

I have read comments of old in blogs on here about men not really being interested if tey don't pursue you relentlessly

But not all men are the same and frankly most women have no idea about the feeling of constant pursuit and rejection year after year decade after decade, and shooting men down brutally without understanding that it often takes a certain amount of courage for nervious amd shy men to make the initial approach

But assertiveness in sexual matters can look ugly too

When I load IM (yes it is fucking useless) there was a fellow Scot male, who was too stupid to even fill in his profile correctly as he had a male pic but his gender as woman, seeking women. He boldly stated that if you were what he was looking for, he would NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER (his shouty upper case not mine)

No do people out there think that comes across as attractive, regardless of gender?


Starmarky 39M

9/13/2018 1:23 pm

I like it alot


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/13/2018 1:32 pm

I personally don't see anything wrong in a woman making the first move. Here or in a non online setting. I'm sort of funny in the aspect of thinking some words get twisted into meaning more than they should. I know it's semantics, but I don't see it as assertive. It's just a woman who has confidence in herself. If a guy can't handle that confidence, then that's on him, not her.

To me, confident women are sexy women.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
9/13/2018 7:15 pm

I am a woman and I don't like to be assertive but I do it anyway and have had good results.

Does that even make sense?

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


_IKanCu2_ 105M

9/13/2018 10:16 pm

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The Young one*z exercise their flirtatiousness and are amusing.
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lonelyoneseeksw 49M
24 posts
9/14/2018 2:34 am

a super blog....quite interesting


needingmore051 54M

9/14/2018 7:16 am

I wish more women were assertive, I really dislike the cat and mouse game, it may be why I like older women more than younger ones. Older women know what they want but some are to shy or pre-programmed to play they game.


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
9/14/2018 6:12 pm

It is a pleasure to be with a woman that knows what she wants, where she is and is not afraid to allow me to know her wishes, I have learned that the women of the world have control of half of all the worlds money and are sitting on all else that is worth anything..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
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luvexotic 62M

9/14/2018 9:32 pm

Wish more women would make the first move


cumboi65 72M

9/15/2018 3:40 am

If women were more assertive, it would make life easier for some of us with fear of rejection.


luvexotic 62M

9/15/2018 5:42 pm

    Quoting  :

it certainly would. Now when are you going to ask me out


ri888 43M

9/17/2018 6:46 am

When it comes to dating it makes no difference. What is important is the cost of the date is shared equally; the woman pays for half the cost.


Dtts43rt35 65M
15090 posts
9/23/2018 11:34 am

Women being assertive is best for me!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


maxdotlonglong9 42M

9/24/2018 1:27 pm

old school


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