|
sucks 12/7/2004
pain, lonleyness, hurt, anger, guilt, all part of
breaking up in this day and age people tend to date only on
money or look's or sex, sad to say noone want's
to take time and get to know one another, were all out trying
to see what we can get and how fast we can get in some women/man
pant's so when it it's over and they do break up
some of us are left wondering did i do something wrong i ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
|
|
Check this out!!! 12/7/2004
So my girlfriend cathches me playing on AdultFriendFinder...never meeting
with anyone in person, check checking out a few profiles
and pics....she wants to break up...is she right? or should
i stop playing around on AdultFriendFinder?
6 Comments, 35 Views,
21 Votes
|
|
yes yes yes 12/6/2004
Why is it so hard to break up with someone when they tell us
they don't want us in their lives still? This is puzzling
me... What do you think?
1 Comments, 14 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
|
|
Sucks 12/5/2004
This is the hardest part of this site, Knowing when and how
to break up. Then, finding out that you would rather be with
the person you found on AdultFriendFinder then with your spouse. WOW!
1 Comments, 60 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
|
|
The Best Way 12/5/2004
The best way is to congrad, ,when breaking apart..It mean
it was never real....
0 Comments, 23 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
|
|
When to finally call it quits... 11/30/2004
I have been happily married for 7 years. I have got 2 great
. Have a good job with good benifts. But they all came
crashing to a halt about a month ago. 1 year ago my wife had
gastric bypass she went from 300lbs to 129lbs. I didn't
care that she was overwieght, but she did so I supported
her. After constant complaining about living in MA we moved
back to CA(where she is from) so I was lucky ...
4 Comments, 49 Views,
32 Votes
,7.55 Score
|
|
Time to Go 11/30/2004
We often wait around so long that the unlucky other begins
to stray anyway. Just get it over with and move on. This site
will help you do just that.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
15 Votes
,6.19 Score
|
|
The hardest thing to do... 11/28/2004
I am going through a separation right now. I wonder how many
others are out there just like me. She has left the decision
as far as divorce up to me. I've not been happy with our
relationship from the day, or night I should say, that we
got married. We didn't have sex until marriage, as
was the tradition in our families. So, I found out, too late,
how bad it really can be. She hates ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
22 Votes
,5.53 Score
|
|
Remnants of Ex-Loves & Lovers 11/27/2004
In my experience I have noticed things about when breaking
up. 1) It depends which side of it your on as far as how and
how long it effects you. 2) Each relationship you have you
take a little part with you good, bad, or both, hopefully
more good than bad. 3) If are involve you need to
keep this relationship separated from your relationship
with your EX.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
|
|
My heart cried for months 11/27/2004
I was with my ex for 2 years. We had planned on getting married.
I found out that he was lying/screwing around for the duration
of our relationship. Even after I found out I was willing
to "work" out our problems...he just contined
to lie and fuck around. I still hang out with him and sometimes
have sex. But the trust is gone...I do not see a future with
him. He has since also been "moving ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
18 Votes
,6.54 Score
|
|
whats my deal? 11/27/2004
for some reason, even though weve been broken up for a while,
and ive dated a few others, i still cant get over my ex girlfriend.
do i miss her or having a commited relationship?
1 Comments, 18 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
|
|
Relationships: 11/26/2004
When a relationship ends, a women will cry and pour her heart
out to her girlfriends, and she will write a poem, "All
Men Are Idiots." Then she will get on with her life.
A man has a little more trouble letting go. Six months after
the breakup, at 3:00 am on a saturday night, he will call
and say, "I just called to let you know you ruined my
life, and I'll never forgive you, and I hate you, ...
1 Comments, 51 Views,
29 Votes
,4.84 Score
|
|
Coming to terms w/the ending of a relationship 11/26/2004
We as humans are habitual creatures, meaning we're
used to doing things as a routine. Yes, that means relationships
too, we choose mates based on qualities we find attractive
or ourselves attracted to. As we progress in relationships,
the bond gets more intense.
<br>
But, the downside to this, when it ends, the bond is severed,
there is a pain that resides. Depending on the ...
1 Comments, 14 Views,
15 Votes
,6.81 Score
|
|
Why physical abused women stay? 11/25/2004
In the news today a 21 yrs was klled by the husband in the middle
of Berlin. It is such a sad thing she is just 21. Surely that
was not the first time.
<br>
Ever wonder why your best friend stay with her abusive husband?
sure you do see them everyday at work, classes, shopping,
at the doctor or in the street with blue eyes or rimping.
Try asking them what happen and you will get ...
2 Comments, 42 Views,
12 Votes
,6.86 Score
|
|
EX'S are that for a reason!! 11/25/2004
Why is it that so many people tend to go back to an EX? They
are an ex for a reason right? Was it a big mistake to leave
them in the first place? Obviously not because at the time
there were reasons!! Unless you were the one that got burnt
but WHY would you go back to someone after they have dissed
you like that? Never look back I say 
3 Comments, 59 Views,
40 Votes
,8.59 Score
|
|
I Must Walk Alone (Better said with a poem)!! 11/25/2004
I wish that there were two of me, then one could go and the
other stay, but there is only one you see... I must be free.
I must walk a solitary road each decision must be my own.
I need to live...alone. There are so many things in life,
my life that I want to see, feel , taste and hear. I must do
this on my own. If there could be two of me...I would spend
each and everyday in the comfort of ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
13 Votes
,6.67 Score
|
|
break up 11/23/2004
is there a good way to break up?? how can u be gentil when i
say i dont luv u anymore??
1 Comments, 7 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
|
|
How?? 11/22/2004
How do i tell my boyfriend I am on this site and then i am finding
other guys. I still love him but he lives 5 hours away and
I wanna just be "best friends" instead. He thinks
im still a virgin like he is but i am far from it...
2 Comments, 82 Views,
39 Votes
,8.12 Score
|
|
LIes and Disrespect 11/22/2004
This is a true story to a lady named sagit. To be able to forget
a condom up inside you then go and see your man of the last
2years and ingage in intercourse only to have him find it
is a act of ignoreance and disgust. Thank You Sexysagit
for a experinence I wont ever forgive or forget.
LuckyLarrooe
0 Comments, 25 Views,
18 Votes
,1.08 Score
|
|
What's Wrong With Me? 11/21/2004
I've been married nearly 20 years. I've left my
hubby twice. The second time I was determined to make the
last. That's when he decided he needed to change his
ways. He was controlling, overbearing, a perfectionist,
but never physically harmful...only mentally.
I came back to him only because family and friends assured
me he had completely changed.
He's changed many things, but can ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
16 Votes
,2.69 Score
|
|
Novel Approach to Breaking Up 11/21/2004
This is what my ex-b/f did to me after an 18-year relationship.
He left to go to Europe to teach conversational English
classes in Russia! And he has no experience or degree to
teach at all! He's a floor covering installer here
in the states.
<br>
So, he leaves me to run his business, take care of the house
that's in his name, and is running about Europe having
the time of his ...
0 Comments, 42 Views,
29 Votes
,7.55 Score
|
|
Oh well she's gone. 11/19/2004
Oh well she's gone. I know, i'll just go adultfinders
and get another one!
0 Comments, 13 Views,
17 Votes
,6.24 Score
|
|
It's hard sometimes 11/18/2004
i want to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years, because we're
just not right for eachother. I love him, but i'm not
in love with him, and we do have a together, and i know
that he loves me. everytime i'm about to do it, i stop,
because i don't want to hurt him, the way that i have
been hurt in the past. any suggestions?
3 Comments, 53 Views,
27 Votes
,6.92 Score
|
|
when you've lost the love of your life 11/16/2004
When I very first saw her I walked up to her and said "You
look like an angel. Can I kiss you?" She said "Yes."
We were together for 3 yrs from that day. I asked her to marry
me and she said yes. But one day out of now where I was thrown
out of the house, with nothing. To this day I have no answers
of why. I thought things were fine. that day I was on my way
to work and she called on my ...
4 Comments, 21 Views,
28 Votes
,5.40 Score
|
|
rainy day yearnings 11/15/2004
Ahhh today is the perfect cuddlefuck day! Bet You would
have had fun had You relaxed and had me that way... rain or
care this rare should not be wasted. Maybe somebody else,
old or new. pleased You better butttt NObody could wish
to do so more. As instructed i took Your magic hand and trusted.
Hand or trust i cannot now see. Is THIS the safety DaddyShark
offered me?
<br>
Your ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
33 Votes
,5.90 Score
|
|
sex 11/15/2004
if you dont get enough sex, dump your partner
2 Comments, 15 Views,
27 Votes
,1.87 Score
|
|
Do We Have to Be Enemies? 11/15/2004
I always seem to have people mad at me because I am not mad
at them when we break up. If something doesn't logically
work, but you are obviously connected.....why do you have
to be negative towards one another? You just change the
nature of the relationship. No love lost, right?
3 Comments, 257 Views,
71 Votes
,8.14 Score
|
|
Moving on, when you are forced to and have no other choice!!! 11/15/2004
I just concluded an 8 year relationship with the Angel of
my dreams. Yeah, it's heart breaking but this was her
decision and trust me, when it's over - it's over
and all the cards and flowers will not do anything but waste
your time, money, and energy. If you feel that it will help
your heart feel better to do this, maybe it will ease some
of the the pain. But like I said, you're wasting ...
1 Comments, 31 Views,
37 Votes
,8.15 Score
|
|
In the Dark 11/14/2004
I went with a man for almost a year that I met thru AdultFriendFinder. We had
great times together, in and out of the bedroom. Then for
no reason that I can think of, he ended it with absolutely
NO EXPLANATION whatsoever. He wrote me a "Dear Jane"
email and said "Thanks for your friendship. Good
luck in the future." To say I was stunned is putting
it mildly. I have thought about it off and on for the ...
1 Comments, 8 Views,
22 Votes
,7.81 Score
|
|
what do the members think to this?? 11/14/2004
i knew someone, thought we both had it made, would have done
anything for him and with him, together 5 yrs.......he
asked me to marry him 3 times and twice i went thro with it,
for him to pull out at the last minute. not only that, but
he stole from me regularly, cheated, lied, loads more,
am i in the wrong to say that i still care about him, in one
way im not, cos what we did share was ...
3 Comments, 55 Views,
35 Votes
,6.06 Score
|
