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sensitive_man111 59 M
2  Articles
STD's   12/10/2004

How do you approach the issue of STD's? Do you come right out and ask, and if so when. I have found that many people are offended if you aproach this to early or in the wrong fashion. I always try to broach the subject before we may get into a romantic or sexual situation. My belief is that the wrong time to bring it up is as you are removing her pants!


3 Comments, 44 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
rm_PunkBritt6 39 F
0  Articles
Annoyed   12/9/2004

Ok, so i have been dating this guy for a month. During the first week and a half we were exclusive, and it was great. He went on a trip to visit family for 2 weeks. as soon as he left all these opportunities came up to cheat but i didnt. i told him i needed to be able to date other people, and he said it was ok but he didnt want anyone else. so now i fuck other people on the side, and i ...


4 Comments, 212 Views, 30 Votes ,2.95 Score
rm_PapaLegba666 56 M
14  Articles
Question: When dating again, what's a good 1st date?   12/8/2004

I was living with the same woman for 15 years and of those, we were married 7. We recently divorced, and it begged the question: After having been out of the dating scene for that long, what would be an ideal place for that 1st date? NO doubt, my social skills are rusty and I'd like to make a decent impression. So ladies, any ideas? <br> <br> <br> ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 14 Votes ,1.54 Score
SEX   12/4/2004

how many people like to have one night stands


3 Comments, 21 Views, 12 Votes ,1.03 Score
Where have all the women gone??   12/4/2004

I'd simply like to ask, where have all the English women gone?? I try searches using my ideal categories and only come up with a handfull of people.. most of which I've already tried communicating with (without success).. so I change my settings and maybe get one or two more. <br> If I browse the USA (which yeh I know is huge compared to the UK), but just a single state has ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
How do you get that first date.   12/4/2004

How do you get that first date, Ladies lets hear from you and see what you have to say, any ideas on how to get a woman to a least go for that first date.


1 Comments, 212 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
Skinny guys and BBW women !   11/28/2004

I'm a slim guy and I have always dated BBW women. It seems to me that most BBW women I meet are attracted to me. I love women of all sizes, including thin, average, athletic, petite and BBW. I just love women period. The sex is great most of the time and most of the BBWs' I've been with have nice plump tight pleasure boxes. My advice to skinny guys is that if you have never been with a big ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 17 Votes ,6.94 Score
dating   11/27/2004

No point of dating, just have one night stands until you get married.


1 Comments, 12 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
Are there no real men in Kansas?   11/27/2004

Why is it i see all these great guy's on here, but there to freaking far away (or there just not into BBW's). Are there no real men up here in Kansas, i may have to move back to Texas just to get a little "companionship". "laugh" I read guys complaining about us women on here. About how we never really want to meet in real life., well you guys do the same thing. every time i talk to a guy ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 17 Votes ,5.53 Score
B 4 REAL   11/25/2004

It baffles me how people one this system are not true to their word.If after meeting someone and they aren't what you expect why not just say so.Why keep them in limbo by not answering their emails.If you aren't feeling the person be man or woman enough to say "Sorry you don't fit into my criteria.


1 Comments, 9 Views, 14 Votes ,6.82 Score
Romantic Dating for me Includes:   11/15/2004

Going for long walks holding hands, which I really love. Another is just cuddling on the couch, gazing into each other’s eyes, and just going with the flow of the moment. A really nice date is when there is no pressure, no high expectations, the first time. Just enjoy the evening and whatever happens with two consenting adults. I believe in love at first sight, but I also believe in ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 33 Votes ,7.55 Score
rm_sexylipps9 49 F
1  Article
Fake Bi-Woman   11/14/2004

Why is that you e-mail a woman they e-mail you back you both sound interested in one another but when it comes time to meet they: back out, stand you up or when you do meet them they look nothing like the picture they sent you? I don't understand if you are not interested then don't reply or atleast be real and stop playing with people's emotions. I need a real woman not a fake one!!!


0 Comments, 25 Views, 22 Votes ,6.37 Score
rm_surecumthing 52 M
2  Articles
guys dating women, similar to selling a vehicle   11/14/2004

Establish a little rapport by asking simple questions like what do you like to do for fun, to relax, what gets you wild, or interests in general. make the conversation 80% about her. If you ask questions, you will illicit criteria about what she wants in a relationship or for just having fun and you can then connect easier and both will feel more comfortable.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
kinkydetroitcpl2 50 C
13  Articles
Should i or shouldnt i   11/14/2004

My girlfriend wants me too fuck her best friend.I think its a trick but I should do it anyways.


0 Comments, 65 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
FROLICKER2 53 M
1  Article
any chance of a date   11/14/2004

i want a nice date with a lady but having trouble any help


1 Comments, 15 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
rm_Poetrybf 38 F
4  Articles
Fools Rush In   11/9/2004

I don’t really know how to start this. I’m a fat girl, and when I say fat, I mean FAT… like grab your torches and pitchforks; you should lock me up in a dungeon somewhere. But that’s not the point. I’m pretty young, just recently turned 22, but up until very recently I was a virgin. In fact I was convinced that I’d die a virgin. That any maladies I ...


5 Comments, 141 Views, 17 Votes ,6.38 Score
why   11/6/2004

Can anyone tell me why women are so put off dating a man who has been widowed. True I was married to a wonderful woman who tragically died .. I have a great from that marriage. I am now ready to move on. The only fly in the ointment is meeting a woman who doesnt think I have put my late wife on some sort of pedlestool because that is not the cass. Women say all the time they would ...


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Fellisha 43 F
2  Articles
help! i'm juggling 3 different men at the same time....!   11/5/2004

So I have 3 different men all wanting to be my only one. The first one is in love with me and I don’t want to hurt him , since I’m his first love. The next started out as my friend but ever since we’ve had sex wants me all to himself. He helps me financially all the time, but goes through women like old socks….I don’t want to cut off what I have with guy ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
EricInPa 47 M
1  Article
Where has the Romance gone?   11/3/2004

Is it just me or has there been a greater growing lack of romance in dating these days. What happened to the James Bond type of men. I for one believe chivalry is not dead, just asleep. I rarely see passion and the courting of a woman happen anymore. More and more it is becoming more clear to me that seducing a partner is a fading act of sexually foreplay. <br> Let me know ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 32 Votes ,8.21 Score
69josh 47 M
3  Articles
I want to know why women always get emotional about sex.   11/3/2004

I never get emotional about sex. exspecally if its new thing I understand if you dated someone for a long time but sex is just sex


1 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
Why are people lonely in a multimillion town?   11/1/2004

First of all I want to say that I have lived in a respected European city and also in Scandinavia and recently I live in Tokyo. I have noticed the difference in how people come together and start dating and all that. It seems to be more difficult to find someone you like as the town increases in size. I do wonder why that is since there would be a proportionate increase in all types of people. ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_AustinBC 44 M
8  Articles
Sex in the eve and sex in the morn   10/29/2004

I don't understand why ever single woman I've been with, loves sex in the morning, and I love sex at night. I think sex at night is better because everything is clean. In the morning, I don't mind, but at the same time sometimes my mind isn't on it. In the morning you are just waking up, you look like crap, and your breath stinks...what is so sexy about that?


0 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Does this site really work for standard members??   10/29/2004

I would like to know what other user experiences when trying to meet members, and or otherwise utilize this site. Any suggestions/tips would be welcome.


2 Comments, 31 Views, 36 Votes ,6.52 Score
What if she is 5 or maybe 10 years older?   10/29/2004

I do wonder how it would be to have a lover that between 5 to 10 years older. Don’t you? There has to be a difference in well both the physical aspect but as well as how the sex is, I presume. I know one thing for sure, when an attractive older woman looks into my eyes I certainly would like to know how a older lover would feel like. Thank you.


1 Comments, 20 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
rm_xtreme01 45 M
2  Articles
Be frank with us, ladies why dont u come on to guys more aggressivly??   10/29/2004

im a very good lookin guy not to sound cocky or anything but i have a very interesting point that considering that the nature of the site is about sexuality and everything here i see allot of woman that seem to want to tease and and do the small talk, yadaa yaada yadaa, but for the most part the ladies in here are doin nothing more. i feel that the chics in here need to be more ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
socialman1962 59 M
1  Article
To invite for a vacation   10/28/2004

Internet dating seems to have a bad image. Every time again I invite a woman to come to Spain and enjoy a hot (and free) vacation, the usual reply is "Yeah, right.....". Being a gold member does not seem to matter either. <br> Anyone with bright ideas (or good experience?) <br> Social.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 28 Votes ,5.91 Score
rm_rdnckwomen 66 F
1  Article
men on line   10/24/2004

There are alot of men here at AdultFriendFinder that claim to curious looking to meet a woman /couple. Alot also claim they are looking for friends 1st too. Where are they?!? I am not having much luck meeting them. Most who have wanted to meet me, couldn't have cared less what kind of person was or anything about me. Most you loose the next week or so and never hear a peep out of them..Like are you hiding..LOL ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
rm_coaster_cock 38 M
1  Article
i wnt to try but...   10/23/2004

hi, im a gay, i think and i wnt to try a man for some sex but do not know how to go about it. i have a few mates that i would like to see naked but noe of them will. i am asking is there a way of seeing them though they are not gay and how to ask a man for gay sex


0 Comments, 109 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
taking your women out   10/22/2004

one thing that i have learned recently, is that if on your first date with a girl, you take them out to a nice place, and spend alot of money, if you dont keep that up, they get bored. girls, like most people, if they have something, they want it again, same, or better.take it from me, start with jack int he box, and work your way up.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 21 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_KELIOSE 53 F
0  Articles
Why can't men just say what they want...   10/18/2004

It never ceases to amaze me that some men today still don’t know how to tell you what they want. I have been seeing this guy for about two months, and he has a CRAZY ex-girlfriend that will not leave him alone. He says he wants to be with me, says he loves having sex with me and the feelings are quite mutual, but she just wont go the hell away.... He says he is trying to get rid of ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score