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Is kissing a lost art?   12/17/2003

I know that people are tired of others ranting and raving but this has been bothering me for awhile. I love to kiss and be kissed. When I was seventeen, I had a boyfriend that could get me wet just by kissing me. Sometimes I think that I could have had several orgasms from his kisses. I know that some of you may think that is weird but it is true. So, when I met other guys I expected ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 13 Votes ,7.00 Score
Saturdaynite 52 M
1  Article
how about new free user supported page?   12/16/2003

having read about fraud, liars etc. I have an idea. How about a page where we can post the names of fgraudsters. Ok there is as risk if you have a bad break up your ex puts your name up, but since it always says"if you get fooled then it your own fault". well maybe that would be a fair point of view if we had somewhere we could maybe checj#k to see if their name are on a "take care" list. ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_cabernet1970 50 M
2  Articles
Re: to shave or not to shave   12/16/2003

It doesn't matter if you're shaved or not - you don't need to tell him up front unless he asks. Some men don't enjoy going down on a woman that's unshaved while others will simply go crazy for it. A few tips: <br> 1.If you're unshaved and he doesn't like it, ask him to shave you; it can be intimate and erotic foreplay. <br> 2. Get HIM to shave first (who says men should ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Posting fake cock pics!   12/15/2003

Let me say first off How pathetic! Although I am sure there are many out there I would like to point one particular 'man' out. Lets see he is 'hung' and a 'boy' and live in central us! Don't be fooled ladies! Obviously something is VERY wrong with this so called man. Luring women to him. The truly pathetic fact is that he can't even get his not even as big as his 'pics' dick hard!! ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,6.21 Score
Response to "Besieged by faggots"   12/15/2003

Here's what I think the deal is........ After constantly and diligently night after night after night thinking and writing wooing letters to the women these guys hope to hook up with, all they get in return is......nothing! A big, fat nothing!! If the women on this site would take 60 seconds of their precious time to respond to a message a guy sent them, (and I mean 'women', because ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Pay for porn sites   12/13/2003

I have been on the site for over a month with no luck at all. I understand the girl to guy ratio is about 200 to 1. Just on a whim and nothing to do I decided to email 40 girls with the same letter to see what kind of response I would receive. (Being a silver member I can do this; AdultFriendFinder says unlimited contact!) This was a well thought out letter; not a 1 or 2 liner. All of the ladies involved ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_screwy22la 37 M
2  Articles
Do girls really what nice guys?   12/13/2003

It seams to me that most girls don't. I mean if you meet a great guy once then make another date don't just sleep with him you still don't know him how can you. Even if you've talked online for a year you don't know if it's the real him or if he's acting to get in your pants. Lets face it it's easy lie online not that it's much harder in real life for some. The only way to get to know ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
N1gh7w4lk3r 46 M
2  Articles
Why do women not want gentlemen anymore?   12/12/2003

Why in the world do women not want gentlemen anymore? I have been on 6 dates in the last 3 mos and all of them have told me im too nice. How can you be too nice?


0 Comments, 2 Views, 35 Votes ,8.43 Score
Sirius5500 60 M
4  Articles
being approached by "faggots" and homosexuals   12/12/2003

I'm a bi guy, and my ad says I'm looking for men, women, and couples. Ninety percent of the responses I get are from guys whose profile says they are looking for women. Period. Nothing even about being bi curious. I even had one guy that wanted to suck my cock, have me fuck him in the ass, yet said he wasn't a faggot. You know, any guy who wants to suck cock and take it up the ass shouldn't ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 32 Votes ,3.71 Score
Banging Away - Help!!   12/11/2003

I have been involved in the lifestyle for a number of years, and too many of the men are forcing me to switch to women! Really, what does a guy think he is doing by banging away "ad nauseum"? Does he really believe that is how to please a woman? Ask any woman what she really likes, and getting pounded on for ten - fifteen minutes straight is at the bottom of the list. Sure, it is great ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 43 Votes ,8.38 Score
rm_montcopaguy 53 M
1  Article
Just Actually Show-up   12/11/2003

It fantastically amazing that there are actually players on AdultFriendFinder that make "dates" and consistently don't show....does anyone win the record for the most number of blow-offs from a single AdultFriendFinder member? How about..."most unique excuses"?


0 Comments, 13 Views, 35 Votes ,7.03 Score
FRAUD   12/9/2003

realize there are many here that aren't to serious about meeting anybody and "premeir" accounts tend to "weed out" the game players So you buy a "premier" account so you can write other members. That was nice and made sense, otherwise there would be no way this site could be kept running. so I got the silver membership, then after a while I start hearing that "standard" members can't ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 51 Votes ,8.57 Score
UshudCmeNow 57 C
1  Article
Real People?   12/9/2003

Are there any real people on AdultFriendFinder. I have been a standard member, gold and silver. Well now I am back to standard. I have found that there are very few real people on this site.(I have met a few wonderful people here) I am a woman looking for another woman to form a relationship with. I have had many contact me on the site but then I never hear from them again, or they want to play email ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
rm_1bigmuff 51 F
1  Article
Single Female Adds Turning Into Couples   12/8/2003

I am married & I am not looking for 3 some. I would like to meet women for one on one or girl groups, but a lot of the female adds have couple desriptions once you read the ads. If you & your man are looking for a girl put out an ad for the two of you. Just wandering


0 Comments, 17 Views, 19 Votes ,7.08 Score
HerandYouandHim 67 C
1  Article
Quit complaining!   12/6/2003

Why are people complaining about not getting benefits for free? Why would anybody join if you could see and contact people for free? Not a way to run a business! AdultFriendFinder provides a service, they collect the info, they organize it and if you want to see it, pay for it! This is an adult "shopping" site, and we can pick and chose who we want to talk to or respond to. We can be picky, if we don't ...


3 Comments, 68 Views, 24 Votes ,1.77 Score
viktorvaughn 46 M
1  Article
SO MANY FAKE PROFILES.   12/6/2003

I have been exploring prfiles on AdultFriendFinder for a few weeks now. I have responded to many profiles with an e-mail...only to find that the "women" on the other end refuse to confirm that they really are who they say they are... I think a good portion of people who use AdultFriendFinder aren't actually on here to meet people (in reality). They instead prefer the virtual reality of NO accountablity and ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 33 Votes ,8.47 Score
Response to "Why Pay??"   12/5/2003

Two part response here, bud: <br> 1. It costs MONEY to run a website and this website was put together so someone could make money. No brainer here, dude. <br> 2. You used the phrase, "to each there owe." Do your perhaps mean, "to each, their own, " or, more grammatically, "to each, his/her own?" You must have been absent the day your English teacher covered ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
Single Guys and "No Responses"   12/5/2003

You single guys need to knock off the crybaby bullshit and face the reality of this website. First, swinging is primarily a COUPLES game. Many couples are on here to solely find/meet other couples. If we cruise some profiles and see one that interests us, we'll contact YOU. How simple can that be? <br> Second, no one on this site is under any obligation, morally or legally, ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 41 Votes ,8.10 Score
can't they read   12/4/2003

Just a rant single guys cannot read they just look at photos.We were wondering if other couples have the same problem.We have in our ad in caps NO SINGLE GUYS.Yet all the time we are bombarded with messages from them wanting to meet or they will page us when we are online on this site with im, sometimes we have 3 or 4 guys page us when we are in a chat room. It has gotten so bad that we ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
re;;;;;, the "old" guys   12/3/2003

re;; the" old" guys and the young women that must have some hunk, , ya right, most tell me that these guys are mostly 2 pump chumps, , i have a great " friends with benifits" with 2 young women 25 and 27, , im 59 very fit, in great shape , well endowed and still care about how i look, , ive been a fireman all my life, and do 80 floors in 16 min at the gym 4 days a week, , i love to do ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
LongJohn7.5 53 M
1  Article
Why Pay?????   12/3/2003

I just joined AdultFriendFinder as a standard member. I did so in hoping to find someone and to try out the site before I pay. As a standard member I am unable to do anything, can't look at profiles (not able to read) send emails...etc. I understand this is an Adult site and most people pay. But way pay for something if you can't see the benefits of joining. I am sure AdultFriendFinder can figure a way out to verify ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 18 Votes ,6.13 Score
MmLovesToLick 39 C
2  Articles
cant people read profile   12/3/2003

tired of haveint o tell people to please read profile and see what we are looking for before you send us a reply we dont want to hurt anyones feeling but we kno what we want and so pleae read profile before you send a reply


0 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
RE: So tired of hearing "no reply, blah blah blah"   12/1/2003

I agree that people should read the profiles and if they don't fit then they should not send an e-mail, but there are so many people that only have ads up to lure you to a different site, or when you do fit what they are asking for they still don't reply. I think the least you can do is to just send an e-mail that says "no thanks". As for the standard members, it's not that expensive to ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_ApexCouple 58 C
1  Article
Race incompatible but messaged anyways....   11/30/2003

Are people fully aware that if you select a particular race in your preferences that races unchecked will show up as being incompatible? We receive lots of messages from users who for some reason have our race as one they prefer not to meet. You can find this information under "Compatibility Score" and it's marked with a RED X. We feel it's frustrating to receive these messages and are ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
natural beauty ,desires,and wants   11/30/2003

you sense it, you see it, and you desire it, but how do you approach it....the ageless question we all ask ourselves during one period of our life or another. we either are wanting advice, or are willing to give that advice, depending on the cyclical maturity level we may be at. however there is always one trait that will be able to trancend the age barier and depending on our level of ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
hotbisexualcoup 46 C
1  Article
To: "There is no BI": Did you get left out of a threesome?   11/30/2003

Everyone has the right to their opinion. But the person who wrote the article entitled, "There is no BI", is displaying fears characterized by the extreme homophobic right-wing mentality. Should we all do it in the missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation??? What abortion clinic did you blow up? Are you the person who hands out pamphlets on the street corner, telling us we ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
totalpackageno1 55 M
1  Article
Women who lie about their bodies   11/29/2003

As a former Silver member, and as a standard member who has looked at the profiles of women who have sent me messages, I have to offer one bit of advice: stop lying about your looks! I have had enough of women who say they're "athletic" and have love handles; their abs are hidden under three inches of flab. "Average" I guess used to mean neither exceptionally fit nor obviously obese, but ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Sex and the religious right   11/28/2003

Why are there profiles on this site that claim they are looking for a "Good, upstanding moral Christian (man/woman)", when the headline of the site clearly states it is "The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site"? Just exactly where in the above phrase is the "Good, upstanding, moral Christian man/woman" part? We are all adults here, and we all know the real porpose of this site. ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
People Please!   11/27/2003

This fucking shit with trying to read someones fucking stupid profile or email because they can't spell is fucking pissing me off! There is a spell check on your computer you lazy stupid fucks! But this only makes me wonder, Hmmm...why am I bitching here? The idiots probably can't read anyway!


0 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes
rm_SWSunset64 48 F
3  Articles
Sex with one's family members   11/26/2003

Those people who have sex with close family members (or even those who just lying about it) need to be shot. What is more disgusting than a 20 year old doing his mother. Or those parents who say they get it on with their own ! Anybody hear about ?!? Get a life.


2 Comments, 1094 Views, 23 Votes ,2.43 Score