I think that telling someone about myself in text is not nearly as good as in person, but here...we.......go. I have a full time job, and am completing my Bachelor's Degree in Business IT at the same time. This leaves me with very little time to do fun things. However, my wife agrees that I need an outlet. We have been active in the swinger lifestyle in the past, but adulting has kept us from really enjoying ourselves for several years. Lately, though, she's been experimenting with her submissive side with other partners. I love my wife, and want her to feel good no matter what, even if I'm too busy to be there with her. Besides, we think it's hot to tell each other about the experiences, and then fuck like rabbits. Kinky? Yeah, a little, but at the end of the day, we love each other, not going anywhere, and we might as well have some fun! If you're this far, then I'll tell you why I'm on here. Being really busy, I have zero time to go to the bars like I used to, or really even make a concerted effort to date. However, I could use some flirting, and some planned playtime! I miss having time to play and flirt, and my schedule keeps me from late nights, without a little advanced notice. We all know that when you're going out, you have to go with the flow, or you'll miss the fun! Well, I can't really do that now, so I would like to find some fun person (or persons) that would like to flirt a little, get to know each other a little, have some fun and at the same time not get hung up on "Why didn't he call?" crap. Not necessarily looking for one night stands, as I'm polyamorous (had wife and girlfriend under the same roof for years) but at the same time I've found that interesting people make me happy. I don't have to have sex just to like someone, and vice-versa. So, if you've gotten this far, you know a lot more about me than I do you...if you think anything I've said sounds interesting, well, send me a message. When I get off work, I'll getcha back, lol

My Ideal Person Okay, my ideal person would be a female or couple that is fun, intelligent, outgoing and responsible. I throw the responsible part in because as an adult, I don't have time or patience for someone who wants to stay up for days, has horrible impulses or sacrifices happiness for "the party." Now, I'm not saying that I'm against any recreational substance, as I've partaken of many, but I have a job, family and responsibilities that will always take precedence over my (or my wife's) pleasure. You should see us when we plan our time, it's really funny. She's scheduled this Thursday for her subspace experience, I've got this Monday to meet a hot chick I met at work....we have to organize, or we effect our life balance. So, my ideal person is respectful that while I can be polyamorous and have a great relationship, it has to be within the boundaries of life.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Led Zepplin, Cage the Elephant, 21 Pilots, Tool, ZZ Top

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
That's not fair, as I used to work in radio and have been
lucky enough to have sex with several celebrities. I've
found that celebrities are just regular people, with regular
needs, that have most of who they are out there for public
consumption. I've met MANY women who are better than
celebrities I've been with, both in looks, intelligence
and passion!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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