NO DICK PICS!!! I'm sure most of you won't get past the pics. I also know even if you do, you'll be selective about the information your retain from my profile...So here's the most important things. 1) I'm Sapiosexual!!! If you can not stimulate my mind with intelligent conversation, you won't be able to stimulate me sexually. 2) I'm Married!! I'm in an open marriage with Poly structure. I do not cheat, lie or sneak around. I'm not judging those that do, I just won't enable the behavior. 3) No Dick pics!! I find them unimaginative and tacky. This goes back to me being Sapiosexual. If you honestly think your best quality is the size or shape of your cock, I'm not interested. I can't have a discussion with your penis, nor would I recognize it if we decided to meet. Besides why would I want something everyone gets to see. There's no challenge. 4) No Flakes or Liars (Part 1)!! I know this medium is used all too often to be anything and everything people ever wanted to be. I'm ME!!! That being said, what is there to gain in pretending? Will I like you better if you tell me one thing and we meet and it's completely different? No, I won't! I won't let you explain or defend yourself! If you can't be honest from the beginning I'll never trust you enough to have sex with you. 5) No Flakes or Fakes (Part 2)!! Do not waste my time asking me out if a) you're going to go mia or stop talking to me a few days before we are supposed to meet b) you're not going to show up. I'm sure you've had both done to you and it sucked. So, give me the courtesy or not doing it to me. 6) I will NOT have casual or nsa sex!! Come on if I want random hook ups I can go to a bar and pretend to be drunk. I want a connection and to "date" someone. You're version of FWB is probably different than mine so I'll avoid that too. 7) Friend requests without conversation or email first will be declined. I'm not one of many..I'm ME!!! 8) I'm a fat chick! You can call it curvy, plus size, thick...doesn't really matter to me how you sugar coat it. I'm not going to lie and pretend to be thin or curvy like size 16 9) Ask to touch!! I'm a fun per with a great energy! I host monthly meet n greets in public. Just because I'm on this site and host the meets does NOT mean I'm fair game! If I don't know or like you use some manners. 10) I'm a crazy witch! Yes, I'm an female and admitting I'm off my rocker.... Still interested? OK then start a dialogue. Attend a meet. I post them here in the Meet & Greet in AZ group.

My Ideal Person I want a smart and funny individual that will go on "dates" with me. Someone who is willing to invest in a dynamic. I'm more than happy to rock your world if you're willing to be part of mine.

Check out the group we made here for updates and topics: Meet & Greets in AZ!!!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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