*NOT TO BE RUDE* I am only looking for fit younger people to explore with only. If your older than me and not in shape I wish to pass its just not my thing. Thanks 4 understanding... Hello. Yes I am married but its just not working. And no its not my fault. I have GOT to get some friends with benefits. I am not looking for a commitment but I need to get someone who wants to play. I know this isn't working but I am not going to be the one to do the walking out. So someone lets be real close friends!!!!!!!!! Anyhow... I have 2 and they live with me. I am looking for something more than I have now, which is not very much I guess. I am not looking for a drop in replacement or anything like that. I want to find someone to experience things with that I have not had the opportunity to experience lately. Whatever that may be is what is will be, does that make any since? I also am not looking for any type of commitments or anything as you see I really still have one of those, huh? Yeah right? I have been empty both emotionally and physically for a long time now. You know there is that something you long for when you don't have it. I want to find that again. I want the butterflies and all that good stuff like a school . I miss that kinda stuff. Update: 7/25/2008 - Ok well I tried and just could not do it! Me and my wife had the talk and I told her things where not working out and I did not feel the magic anymore etc etc.... But she really wants to make it work. She wants to be all those things I needed her to be back when I needed them. Needless to say now, I could't hurt her, I told her I would see if we could make it work. If we are ever going to go our own ways she gots to make the break, I am just not into hurting people. I dont know how some people do it! Anyhow we are giving it a go. However as much as I love her as a person, the physical attraction is not there any more, she has changed physically in weight and what not. Until the inevitable happens I want and need some young hot sexy fit petite gal to give me my occasional dose of medicine. Please!? [COLOR red]STANDARD MEMBERS CAN CONTACT ME FREE![/COLOR]

My Ideal Person Someone who is wanting to have some fun and not looking for a commitment to them only. Not really looking for one night stands exactly. However, I am not completely opposed to the occasional one time fling but would really prefer someone or ones that can be discreet on a more than one time basis.

Now since this question was really 'what your looking for in a person', I must admit, Young hot and blonde is my weakness However that is not a requirement, lol.

Let's see if we click. Now go find that email me button, hurry!

3/11/2008 - Fantasy Alert! When I was younger (hey not that I'm OLD or anything) but anyhow, when I was younger like back in high school days and after I never really dated much. I was pretty shy and never had the nerve to ask girls out and didn't have all the smooth moves the other guys did to score with the girls and move on to the next one ...(what dogs). So, I now realize I have a strong attraction for what I missed out on back them, that being the 'younger' women and I attribute it to this. But who cares I find you all highly attractive. I also have only been with one person other than my wife my entire life. The other person was my first and then I met my wife and never been with another woman since. I now also realize I missed the 'sowing your wild oats' before getting tied down section of my life as well.

So if you are a hot young woman wanting to be corrupted by a slightly older guy or looking to do you own corrupting, please don't hesitate to contact me.

3/11/2008 - Ethnic fantasy - Ok, I also have recently realized I find young Latina women very sexy and arousing. There is just something about there appearance coupled with the Spanish accent that makes me go crazy. So ya, if you fit the above I would love to hear from you as well!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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