By all accounts,...I am a good person, not perfect but my heart is in the right place when it comes to dealing with all types of people. I am fortunate enough to have married the best thing that ever happened in my life, next to having my . But, alas, through the years, despite my love for the woman who saved me, it seems she has gotten tired and the intimacy is just not what it should be for a man that is still full of life and of ambition and not ready to for the rocking chair. However, I love her! And, I will stand by her while she resistantly works through some issues that she proudly but stubbornly understands that she must change. I can wait as I have vowed but while I do, it would be nice to have a special someone that understands my pain and can share their own grief as we fulfill our obligations to our loved ones and friends. Despite this, I am happily married and I intend to remain. However, I have been so good I can't stand it anymore. After several decades with the same woman I am looking to add some excitement to my life. To be honest I have shared very lovely intimate moments with others but my commitment to my wife interfered. But, I am not a player! That is why my ideal partner is attached/married or indifferent. I have no intentions of changing my current situation nor do I want to mess up your situation. [B]Discretion [/B]is a big issue with me. I am fixed. (My wife took care of that. She also took care of our dog. Poor chap! He was still young and I am sure still a virgin). People who know me like me because I am easy to get along with and I am funny and tend to be silly. I am always looking for something to laugh about. I do not take myself seriously despite my work and education level. I exercise 3 to 5 times a week. So therefore I am and look fairly fit. I avoid bar scenes. I prefer walks, talks and sharing thoughts while having a meal, or taking a walk. I limit my alcohol intake to about 2 drinks. I am clean and have never had STDs and want to stay this way. I am most satisfied with sex when my partner has fully enjoyed herself, especially when her pleasure is obvious. I have no problem with exploration. I love sex outdoors and love to give oral sex. A long term relationship is preferred but short term is fine as well. Let's chat and see where it leads. You will not be disappointed.[B][/B]

My Ideal Person Many of my best friends through the years have been women. Well, I am looking to be someone's best friend but with benefits. Also, I need someone who will not fall in love w/ me. This has been a problem. I am straight and love the sensual interaction with a women. I need someone who is very discreet because of the things I am involved with and where I live. That is why I prefer to meet in public instead of providing a picture. A picture is too dangerous. I do not consider myself kinky but I an willing to try something in order to satisfy my partner. My own wife is too conservative (that is why I need more). I am not into making pictures or videos. The best place to have sex is anywhere outdoors. I need someone who is not expecting anything more than fun, romance and sex. However, please DO EXPECT ME, to pamper you and show you my appreciation for being part of my life. If you can travel to conferences that would be real nice. I have absolutely no intentions of leaving my wife! I like all sorts of music. During sex music is fine or not. Of course romantic music is best. I love to caress and enjoy every square inch of my woman. This includes foreplay where I play with my partner so she experiences several orgasms. I am in no rush to penetrate! I do not have the time to have more than one special person. Therefore, please rest assured I am not a one night stander nor do I plan to sleep around. Of course if that is all that you want I will consider short term affairs if I am not already taken (payback, revenge, curiosity, one last fling, or just for the moment).